signs of genuine love

Signs of Genuine Love

Dear men,
When a woman genuinely loves you, the only things she will ever want from you are affection, attention and emotion (the 3 components of love).
Once she starts asking for transport fare and financial maintenance, you are no longer in the love zone! There are only three zones in your relationship with women who are not your relatives.
Friendzone, love zone and billing zone. If you are foolish enough to marry a bloodsucker who puts you in the billing zone, her entire family may finish what she started by their unreasonable and unending financial demands!
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best valentine's day gift ideas for 2019

Best Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas

Are you feeling a little clueless about how to choose the right Valentine’s Day gift and what it would be? You are not alone… Continue reading “Best Valentine’s Day Gift Ideas”

international day of families 2020

International Day of Families 2020

Happy International Day of Families everyone!

15th of May every year is set aside and recognized by the United Nations as Internation Day of Families. This is to promote the importance of a healthy and well-balanced family. Continue reading “International Day of Families 2020”

5-year-old boy pulled over

5-Year-Old Boy Pulled Over While Driving to California

A 5-year-old boy was stopped on the highway while driving his mother’s car to purchase a Lamborghini in California.

He left home in his mother’s SUV with $3 after an argument with his brother when his mother said she would not buy him a Lamborghini. He was on his way to California from Utah when police stopped him.

The Police officer said that he observed the SUV weaving on Interstate 15 at around 48 km/h and suspected the driver was under some influence when he made a move to stop the 5-year-old to stop.

The dashboard camera footage of the encounter was shared while the boy’s name was withheld.

“How old are you? You’re 5 years old? Wow. Where did you learn to drive a car?” the officer was heard asking the boy in surprise. He had to assist the boy who was sitting on the edge of the seat to park the SUV on the side of the freeway.

The child told the Police officer that he had planned on driving to California – a journey of almost 1300 kilometres from his home in Utah – to buy a Lamborghini with $3. Lol.

A Lamborghini on the average costs $200,000  but apparently, the 5-year-old boy didn’t know that.

Nobody was hurt in the incident but a local prosecutor could decide to file charges against the parents who were out when the 5-year-old was cared for by his older sibling.


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Civil Servant Impregnates Mother-In-law; Blames Rain

A civil servant in Lafia, Nasarawa State, impregnates mother-in-law.

Christopher Chori has confessed how cold weather during the rainy season made him sleep with his mother-in-law Mrs Priscilla Kwange. She went visiting to babysit after the delivery of her daughter’s new baby boy. This wrenching story has forced the father-in-law, Mr Silvanus Kwange into lamentation on what to do with his wife who relocated from their family home in Taraba State to babysit for the son-in-law.

For the seven months that Mrs Kwange was babysitting for his son-in-law in Lafia, she did not meet with her husband.

The touching story reported on Saturday Sun followed the death after childbirth of Christopher Chori’s wife known as Faith who is also the first daughter of Mr Kwange. The late Faith was also Mrs Priscilla’s stepdaughter as Mrs Priscillia married Mr Kwange after Faith’s mother died.

Meanwhile, Priscilla’s marriage to Mr Kwange of more than ten years has been without a child. So when her stepdaughter died, her husband asked that she should go and babysit for Mr Chori, a development that led to the happening.

As Mr Kwange said, “It is about seven months that I have not seen her. We only talk on the phone.” He continued “I know the importance of her going to stay in Lafia for some period of time, to take care of the newborn baby whose mother (who is my daughter) is late. I thought it was my own responsibility to help my son-in-law and the new baby of my late daughter. So, I allowed my own wife to come and help. Is that an offence?”

He continued “Two weeks ago, a friend ran into my wife in Lafia and called to tell me that he saw her with a bulging stomach. I was speechless with shock and asked, how come? I didn’t want to believe it or confront her on the phone. She has been there since June last year. I decided to visit them to also see how the little boy is doing. I was coming with so much joy, not knowing that I was coming to meet disaster waiting for me. When I got to the house of my son-in-law, I met the shock of my life as I saw my own wife with a protruding stomach. I stood transfixed to the spot as I looked at her, trying to recall if there was any time she told me she was pregnant but I could not remember.”

“I quickly asked my wife what happened and she broke down and confessed that Mr Chori seduced her and they had sex and it became frequent and the result was the pregnancy. She started begging me for forgiveness. She said that she actually allowed him to have his way as a way of checking her fertility status and it turned out to be this way and that she refused to abort it because she had spent 10 solid years with me without a child. She said it is almost getting late as she is no longer getting younger.” 

“She pleaded with me not to cause her any embarrassment or disgrace by exposing her to ridicule and shame. She actually begged me to handle the matter in a mature way, but I’m yet to get out of the shock seeing my own wife impregnated by my own son-in-law. My anger knows no bounds. If it were during my days as a military man, I would have used my gun to kill the two of them, but if I do that now, I will be taking the law into my hands. What I will do now is to go back to Taraba. I have asked my wife not to come back to my house. As for Christopher Chori, I leave him to his conscience.”

His son-in-law, Mr Chori on his part said:

“After the death and burial of my wife, my mother-in-law came to stay with me here in Lafia, to help look after the baby because my mother is no longer alive; she died many years ago. I work with one of the Federal Government agencies in Lafia. My younger sister who is equally staying with me is in SS2 and could not combine her studies with taking care of the baby. So my father-in-law asked his wife to come because his first wife who happens to be my real mother-in-law is late.”

“I live in a two-bedroom apartment. So when she came to take care of the baby with the assistance of my younger sister, I left one of the rooms for them while I stayed in the other room. But I come home regularly to check on them and to ensure that she does not lack anything especially when my younger sister is in school.”

“In the first month of her stay with me, nothing happened. But during the second month, which was July 2019, something happened that left me with so much guilty feelings. My sister went to school. I did not go to work that day, leaving I and my mother-in-law alone in the house. It rained the previous night all through and the weather was quite cold. I was checking on them in their room to see how my newborn baby was doing. But when I opened the door, I was shocked to see my mother-in-law almost naked as she wore only lingerie with no underwear. I could clearly see the outline of her firm breasts and her private part.”

“I tried to turn back but she said I should come in. When I hesitated, she walked up to me and grabbed me, asking me why I was behaving like a small boy. She asked whether she was not looking attractive to me. I told her I could not do what she had in mind with her as I saw her as my own mother as well as my mother-in-law.”

“But she disabused my mind and insisted that I must sleep with her. As a human being, I fell for the temptation and slept with her that day. And somehow it continued at any given opportunity. It became a daily routine as I was not going to work regularly. As soon as my sister leaves for school and the boy is able to sleep, we would stay indoors and have sex all day and it later resulted in pregnancy but she refused to abort it.”

“She said she has been longing for a child of her own. I cannot but blame myself for falling into such a temptation but then the deed has been done. I feel very bad because there is no way my father-in-law would thump his chest and claim to be the owner of the pregnancy because she has spent some months in my house and she missed her period while staying here, not in her husband’s house. I’m confused at the moment. I don’t know what to do but the days ahead will surely bring a solution to this embarrassing situation.”

Priscilla’s Justification:

“I’m not proud of myself because apart from being a housewife, the victim is my son-in-law. My reason for teasing him was to test my fertility status since there was a golden opportunity and sticking to my husband in the past ten years has not yielded any result. I wanted to be sure of where the problem lied. Unfortunately, I took in. It was a wrong decision but I didn’t want to take the risk of aborting the baby as it may not come my way again.”

“Although, I didn’t want it made public, my husband has succeeded in exposing it. I admit I am guilty of allowing my son-in-law to impregnate me but I was also considering my condition, even though I never expected pregnancy to come. But since it has come, I will want to keep it even if he decides to push me out of his house, I can’t afford to die childless.”

The damn rain and cold weather!

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get some rest

Get Some Rest Before You Are Laid to Rest

There is no doubt, things and times are tough in Nigeria and most of the world in 2020.
To enjoy a healthy living and thriving, it takes dedicated effort, the Grace of God. You need to get some rest in.

Be satisfied with what you have. Spend wisely and buy only what you really need to make you live healthily.

Avoid conflicts in any form. Many people are angry, frustrated and ready to shed blood at any slight provocation! Patience is key. Ignore and avoid trouble as much as possible and learn to say the magic words “I am sorry.”

Men, control their anger. It is hard to make ends meet these days but please, don’t take it out on your family. Let your home be a peaceful place. Don’t worry, we will all smile, again soon.

Women, endure with your husbands. Don’t complain. Show love. Be good mothers and create fun to ease tension.

Your health should be very important, give it a priority. Eat a moderately prepared healthy diet with varieties of fruits and vegetables. And endeavour to get some rest.

Above all, thank God that you are not in the hospital. Have you forgotten, you are one of the richest men in Nigeria today because you are healthy? Health is wealth!

Nothing in life lasts for life. Remember to live before you leave. Don’t spend your entire life making a living and forgetting to live! Remember to get some rest.

There are only two ways to live – You’re either living or just existing. A balanced life is the best life. Whoever says you’re irreplaceable is lying to you.

Life is like exam questions.
If you are having a problem understanding one question, you move to the next.
Don’t get stuck in one chapter of your “Book of Life”!

Winners don’t quit but they surely take breaks.

Don’t spend your entire life opening one door.
If it refuses to open forever, then, it means – maybe – it’s not your door.

The fact that a certain aspect of your life is not working as planned doesn’t mean your whole life has to be on hold.
Your time here is limited.

If you can change it, do so. If you can’t change it, stop worrying and complaining about it.

Never give the management of your life to those who cannot manage their own lives. To be spiritually fooled is to be spiritually foolish!.

Be careful when someone who cannot hear his own voice tells you he’s hearing from GOD.

Happiness is a choice, not a destiny. Happiness is not a destination, you must travel with it. Happiness is a present tense, not a future tense.
You can delay your gratification, but your happiness should never be postponed.

A situation and a problem are two different things; don’t mix both.

Always do your best but never ever forget to take a rest. Whoever refuses to rest will eventually be laid to rest and people will tell him to REST IN PEACE.



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